Monthly Archives: January 2012

Corporate Sponsors Provide Support

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Just a short announcement today.
ImageFor our art contest at CelebratingArt.com, we are pleased to announce that Blick Art Materials is now providing our awards.  This is a great sponsorship from a nationally recognized company, as we provide awards that help our teachers and students further their art.  It is also a great endorsement for our company.  We have never pursued sponsorship before and are excited about the possibilities.  

We thank all the teachers and students that believe in our mission of motivating and recording student work.  Having Blick Art Materials believe in us helps give us additional credibility.  As we pursue other endorsements from educational organizations for our writing and art contests, let us know if you have any ideas or connections.

Our contests have changed thousands of lives as students believe in themselves and become life long writers and artists.   What we do is important and we are glad to be here for you.

Expect Great Things and Great Things Happen

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My son, who is in 8th grade, was in The Merchant of Venice this weekend.  Locally, we have a theater group for students in grades 4-12 that does three full-length Shakespeare plays a year.  The director could do simpler productions, but instead she stretches these young minds and expands their vocabulary and understanding of the world.

As teachers, it is comfortable to not stretch our students. I know teachers that give a simpler assignment because they feel too much of a challenge would be too difficult.  But having read student poetry and reviewed student art for our contests, I see the students who have been stretched and it is amazing to watch the growth.  When you have one excellent artist or writer in a classroom, then it is the child.  When you have an entire class of great writers and artists, it is the teacher.

We have our essay writing contest coming up Feb 15,  and our poetry and art contests the first week in April.  Just as my son can use the word “peevish” and understand the concept of the risk of loaning money as understood in The Merchant of Venice, I know that stretching him brought a great return.  Expect great things and great things happen.

National Child Prodigy Thanks Us for Her Start

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I just got off the phone with a father thanking me for publishing his daughter several years ago.  We often have calls such as this, but this one was different.  He told the story that it was our contest and the recognition that it gave in making his daughter a published writer that really gave her the confidence to excel.  We also hear that often.  However, his daughter, 15 year old Meredith Graf, has gone beyond the normal high school accomplishments to national recognition.  To understand the prodigy that she is you can read more here.

In our art contest, due to her gift as an exceptional artist, Meredith has made an ethical decision to not enter.  However, her father related that she wants to give back to Creative Communication, the sister company to CelebratingArt.com, by designing a book cover for us.   The pictures below are Hall of Fame basketball player Bill Russell and a portrait of President Bush that is on display in his residence.
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We love it when we hear the stories behind the contest entry.  It humanizes the words and the art and helps us see the student who did the work.  One teacher, several years ago, offered our contest to his or her students.  The result was a confident young women who is changing her world and the world around her.  Thank you to that teacher for giving the students this opportunity.  Thank you Meredith for sharing your work.  We hope that more teachers will use our contests to give students the confidence to know that they can succeed.

Take the Time to Finish…It Feels Good

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Ten years ago, after I had been divorced for several years, I published a book called Broken Hearts….Healing: Young Poets Speak Out on Divorce.  It was a compilation of kids from across the US who wrote on their feelings and the stages they went through from a divorce.  It was written by the real experts, the kids, and received a couple of national awards.

Yesterday we published the ebook version at smashwords.com.  In doing this I reflected back to what made me create and publish a book.  After my divorce, my kids would come home and tell me that they were the only kids in their school that come from a divorce family.  In reality, about half of their classmates were in this group.   The book was created to help them realize that they were not alone.

However, publishing the book was more than the content of what was created. It was a project completed.  How many of us have large goals that stay as good intentions.  Something we think about and don’t follow through to completion.  When I received my Ph.D., one of my professors stated that there are thousands of students every year that start a graduate program, often they finish the classwork, but end up ABD (All But Dissertation) and never receive their Ph.D.  Aside from the big things in life like creating a book or getting a degree, how many small things do we need to cross off our list?  Small things that we could accomplish, yet don’t, due to our just not doing them.

I look back at things I have done for my students in the classroom, for the students we work with in the contests, my family and personal areas of my life.  When I take a task and finish it, looking back makes me proud of myself.  I feel more confident.  It feels good.

For the students we work with in the contests, we have hundreds of letters stating that becoming a published writer or artist became an event in their lives that is an accomplishment.  Taking the time to create and finish a task, at any level, is something we can all do.  Look around at the various parts of your life.  What can you finish?  What can you help your students finish?  For me, 10 years ago it was a book that is now used by school counselors across the US.  Something I did hopefully made a difference in some child or parent’s life.  However, I do know that completing a goal had made a difference in my life.

Don’t Limit Yourself — You’ve Got What You Need!

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Last night my daughter, who is in a wheelchair, tried out for the musical Narnia.  We have always taught her that the greatest limitation we have are those that we put upon ourselves.  Will she ever be a dancer?  No. Then again as a 52 year old, non dancer type, I may never be a dancer either. There are many things she will never be able to do.  So she focuses on the things she can do.  These are the things that are the successes in life for her.  She may not get a part, but there is a 100% chance she would NOT get a part if she didn’t audition.  Her list of awards in art, writing, science and history at the school, regional and state level are impressive for a 6th grader. She has not let her handicap hold her back.

I tell her that each of us has our own handicap as none of us can excel at everything.  Some kids may not be as smart as her or as funny.  My mother always felt handicapped when she would have to call me, with my long arms and height, to reach in the back of a shelf to grab a can of food.   But overall, we all start life with similar capabilities.  I have always loved the poem “Equipment” by Edgar A. Guest

Figure it out for yourself, my lad.
You’ve all that the greatest men have had;

Two arms, two hands, two legs, two eyes.
And a brain to use, if you be wise.
With this equipment they all began.
So start from the top, and say, “I can”.

Look them over, the wise and the great.
They take their food from a common plate.
And similar knives and forks they use.
With similar laces they tie their shoes.

The world considers them brave and smart.
But you’ve all they had when they made their start.
You can triumph and come to skill.

You can be great if you only will.

You’re well equipped for what fight you choose;
You have arms and legs and a brain to use.
And the man who has risen great deeds to do.
Began his life with no more than you.

You are the handicap you must face.
You are the one who must choose your place.

You must say where you want to go.
How much you will study the truth to know.

God has equipped you for life.
But he lets you decide what you want to be.
Courage must come from the soul within.
The man must furnish the will to win.

So figure it out yourself, my lad.

You were born with all the great have had.
With your equipment they all began.
Get hold of yourself and say “I CAN”!

As humans, we all have the same gifts or equipment.  However, beyond basic equipment, we have to take advantage of the opportunities that are given us.

We can’t sit around and think about things, we must Do.  We must say “I Can.”  Each of us started out the same as all the great ones of the world.  George Washington had two eyes, two feet and a brain.  Same with Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King, and every great person the world has known.  What made them great is what they DID. What we do with the opportunity given to us is our choice. That doesn’t mean just saying “I’m going to do something”, it’s actually doing it.  

I pass this message on to all my students when they are afraid to try something new.  Don’t limit themselves.  For my daughter, she could sit in her wheelchair and think of all the reasons she can’t do some things.  Instead, she thinks of the things she can do. It was risky and scary to try out for a musical when you can’t dance.  But she did not limit herself.  By the way, she got a part.

Empower Yourself to Do More

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When I was a boy, my father had an old Boy Scout Handbook that had the following quote:

Bite off more than you can chew and chew it.
Do more than you can do and do it.
Hitch your wagon to a star
Take a seat and there you are

I think it was attributed to Tennessee Ernie Ford.  For the last 45 years, that has been a motto that I have lived by.  But I realize that there are pros and cons to this lifestyle.  As a student and a teacher, I have always been an overachiever. I have bit off more than I could chew, and to my surprise I always chewed it.  I excelled and became a teacher who has received teaching awards at two universities, had my speech and debate teams win national awards, has given service on many boards, and has given a lot back to the community.  It was more than I thought I could do.

But getting to that star is a process and not a goal you reach.  There is always more to do.  More to achieve.  Perfection is something to work toward, not to obtain.  Once you have taken on the attitude of always doing more, you can never take a seat and arrive.

As a teacher, I have found that I can always do more.  But then there is a cost.  Time away from family, less sleep, a few more gray hairs. This year I am in charge of my 35th high school reunion.  In contacting my classmates, I find a few obituaries along the way. I stop and wonder what the costs were along the way of doing too much.  We alway hear to “Stop and smell the roses.”  Maybe taking in a little from both mottos will create a better balance.

Just a few thoughts for the day.  Make your day an awesome one!

Don’t play it safe! Creativity takes courage

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Ten years ago, I went to California to spend the weekend with my 98 year old grandmother. She was a sculptress that has work in several museums around the country and worked with Gutzon Borglum (who did Mt Rushmore) . We we wanted to go to her studio and make castings of some of her best work. What I did any other weekend that year I can’t tell you. But that weekend became an event that I will remember the rest of my life. She lived to 103 and is now gone.

Each day we have the opportunity to do things that are memorable. The last sitcom I watched on TV was Seinfeld in the 1980’s. Yes, I am culturally illiterate about the latest celebrity. But instead of that time watching TV, I have done a hundred projects with my kids and hopefully made the world a better place.

With our art and writing contests, there are a million kids who will NOT enter the spring contest. There will be several thousand that will enter. These students took a risk and will send in a bit of themselves through their art, poetry or essay. Henri Matisse said, “Creativity takes courage.” The students who do NOT enter will have no benefit from playing it safe. The students who Do have the courage to enter may not move on in the competition or be accepted to enter, but they won’t know unless they try. However, the students that are accepted to be published or are a top ten winner, will have taken a risk that will give them a reward they will remember the rest of their life.

This weekend, do something that you will make it a memorable weekend. That is my challenge. Make it a weekend, like I did ten years ago, that I now look back and remember. Those are the days that we cherish and the opportunities that are rewarded.

The challenge and the success are worth the risk

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Thirty years ago my students felt a C was average.  To earn an A  was an  accomplishment.  Today, when I state to my students that  the average on a test was 85% I am thinking it was an easy test.  A different reaction is from my students who are worried why the average is so low.  What happened to having a few students excel?  When everyone is rewarded as if they excelled, it takes away from those that worked hard to be the best in the class.

In judging art and student writing, we put in literally thousands of hours reviewing the entries.  Entries are viewed by more than one person and then the ones that we feel are worthy are invited to be published. The final winners come from these entries.  When we do not accept an entry, we are not suggesting that it is not art or that is is not a poem or an essay.  Not being accepted simply means that our judges thought other entries were more deserving to be published.

In working with student contests, we often have parents and teachers contact us and ask if we accept everyone who sends in an entry.  There are some publications that may do that and have as their sole purpose to sell books.  That is not who we are.  Our goal is to be selective enough that it is an honor to be included.  We want the “A” and “B” entries, the best entries,  to receive recognition. If everyone is accepted, the accomplishment is diminished.

Sometimes entering a contest is discouraging.  You may not be accepted.  And then when we see the winners, we don’t always know the history of their success.  For every success, that we see, there are often many struggles and failures that we don’t see.  We all know the story of JK Rowling, and her many rejections before Harry Potter was accepted.  But she kept trying, took the risk of rejection and we all know the result.  Never limit your own opportunities.  Take the chance and let others make the decision.  If you don’t take the risk, you are limiting your success.

Reach out with your creativity and you’ll be amazed who you may touch

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Saturday night while watching the Miss America Pageant, I thought of all the accomplishments that culminate to this one ending competition. These outstanding women had decided what they wanted, paid the price and were now reaping the rewards of their hard work. While watching the pageant, the finalists were on stage and a few of their accomplishments were written across the screen. For Miss Arizona, Jennifer Sedler, (who ended up as 4th runner-up) one of her accomplishments was having a poem published in 5th grade. In checking our records, it was our company Creative Communication, that published her poem “Hawaiian Seas” in the Fall of 2002.

When students enter our art or writing contests, they are students like everyone else. As they move on in life, talents are developed. A 5th grade student becomes Miss Arizona. Or another student, Angela Bishop, who wrote to me the following:

My name is Angela Bishop, and almost ten years ago you selected one of my poems to be published in the Southern edition of your book. I was 15 and it was the highlight of my young life. Although it has been nearly a decade, I just wanted to finally express the thanks I have felt all these years. I cannot thank you enough for accepting my work and publishing it. I have been writing since I was a child and have continued to write. I am currently working on my second novel. So, thank you, thank you, for the confidence you unknowingly gave me in 1999. I plan to keep writing for as long as I possibly can. Your poetry contest is a wonderful thing, and you open a window for tomorrow’s great writers to find their way through and gain the confidence in their work. Keep it going, you are making dreams into realities.

To both Jennifer and Angela and thousands of other students, I am glad that we have been there for you. We helped you in creating an accomplishment that you can be proud of and add to your resume. When students wonder if they should enter a contest, I give a strong affirmative. You may not be accepted to be published, but if you don’t enter you know there isn’t a chance of being published or being a top ten winner. Sometimes you have to take a risk and enter a contest. It may change your life. Just ask Jennifer and Angela.

What are we communicating with our art?

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After leaving my Interpersonal Communication class last night, I thought of the application of communication theory and the entries we receive in our art and poetry contests. One concept is that every message has a content and relationship dimension.    When we hear a message, what the words mean is the content.  What the person means and the subtext behind the words is the relationship.  Let me give you an example with the following dialogue.

Wife:               “You watch too much TV.”

Husband:         “I do not.”

Wife:               “C’mon honey….you do too.”

Husband:         “All right then, I won’t watch any TV for a whole week, dang it.”

Wife:               “Oh, just forget it.  Do what you want.”

Husband:         “Forget it!  How can I forget it?  You come in here and make a big deal out of my TV habits.  Then to satisfy you, I agree to cut it out completely and you say forget it.  What’s   wrong with you anyway?”

 

Now when the relationship is in trouble, the husband will wonder why they are unhappy as the only thing they fought about was the TV.  However, beyond the words, at the relationship level, the real message has nothing to do with the TV, but a wife who is wanting to have some attention paid to her.

So often we receive wonderful pieces of art or poetry and the content is wonderful.  However, the piece is not appropriate (from our standards) for our readers and viewers.  We are very protective of our students.  When we receive a piece of art from an obviously talented artist, but the image is of a violent or sexual nature, even though the content is good, the relationship between the artists and our student readers is such that the poem or art would be rejected. That is always a tough decision, and often we will contact the student to let them know that they have talent, but our contests are not the correct venue for them.

Maybe my connection of communication theory to our contests is a bit of a stretch.  If so, then, oh well.  However, in either case, I hope I gave you something to think about with either your relationships and why a simple argument blew up into something larger, or for our contests and why a great piece of art or poetry was not accepted to be published.

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